Does your SO expect you to be his house b****? WHat good is it to be a house b**** anyway?

[1der1]

Sorry....let me rephrase that.  Didn't mean to offend anyone?  His house WIFE/GIRLFRIEND?

Does your SO expect you to be his house bitch?  You know...cook and clean and just be there for him and the kids at all times.  Or do you feel that you are trapped?    What good is it for your relationship to be the house bitch?

[ashtayk]

i feel that way and  im not even a sahm. i wwork and so does he but almost every night he goes out and im  left alone with the baby.

[cali_angel_girl]

No my dh doesn't EXCPECT me to do anything but I am a sahm and I choose to be.

[aprilbutterfl92]

Same my amazing DH doesnt expect anything & he helps out , works so much & gives me all i want & need i am a SAHM mom n i GLADLY cook , clean do laundry errands care for our DD n also go out with friends shop n spoil myself n daughter.

[Eshadowgirl]

 I am his WIFE.  I work full time, and still maintain the house. WE are a team and he also pitches in if asked. He does his laundry if i get too busy, will take out the garbage and helps if im too tired. 

I prefer to do the cooking, because its what I love to do. I dont do anything because I HAVE to....and he respects me. I do it because I love him, and our family.....

 

[mama.farmer]

lol Yes, in a sense. If I genuinely made an effort to get some sort of decent paying job and get out of the house, I don't think he'd have an issue with that, but right now, any job I got would not outweigh the cost of childcare, so while I'm home, my job is THE home. He can clean, and has proved it, but he goes to work...what am I supposed to do, sit home and eat bon-bons all day? 

[TheMrs407]

I work and pay a good chunk of the bills. DH helps around the house nearly as much as I do. During the summer when I don't work, I take care of everything around the house except mowing the lawn.

[my4kids274]

I am in no way a "house bitch" as you stated.  I am his wife and that is that.  I will admit I do treat my dh very well  but he respects me and I am not expected to do everything and be at his beckon call!  Just Wow!  I take care of the homefront and he works his ass off at his job.  That is all I am saying!

[Neuro]

No, he doesn't. I feel more trapped by my job outside of home than I do with him.

[mommyof11050307]

While I'm a SAHM I do most of the house work but when he is home he is expect to help around the house and help with the kids. I'm not his bitch, maid or mommy.

[Swt7]

"house bitch!" i resent this word honestly.
I am a mother to my husband and kids!
I am working though i work for 61/2 hrs so the rest i stay home to take care of my family and this is called L.O.V.E!
Learn to love what you are be it sahm or sth else....