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I'm so done with Facebook!!

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Me and my SO both have FB. I'm pretty private so I only allow friends and family on my page and he's a total social butterfly so he pretty much adds whoever request him. I went on his page a few times and saw that they're some women on his page showing a lot of there "assets". After a while it started to bug me because we just had a baby and I feel that it's inappropriate so I asked if he knew the girls and he said no. I felt that they should be deleted and it turned into an argument so he did it out of anger and blocked me from his friends list. I was pissed because I felt like his fb is so important to him that he needs to hide who's on his page from me so he doesn't have to hear it, I mean if they're not family or friends and you just added them then it shouldn't be a problem unfriending them but to him it was such a big deal so I got upset and deleted him off my page. Im just tired of dealing with all the b.s. am I wrong? It's really bugging me that it's such a big deal to him.
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by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 6:59 PM
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avaana06
by Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:40 PM

 Oh sorry just saw his is your SO, not husband.


Quoting avaana06:

Sounds like your husband isn't considering you at all.


 

CrazyLife1996
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 8:41 PM
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The point is I asked a male friend to do something for me and he happily obliged. No temper tantrum.




Quoting JeremysMom:

All I am saying is that if I don't like something that I see on Facebook, I don't expect that person to change it. That is my responsibility. I will apologize though because I misread your comment. I thought you had said that it has been four months since you asked him and he still hasn't done it.



Quoting CrazyLife1996:

OH FFS! Really? Why are you getting so worked up over him doing it and not me? It didn't bother him to make the adjustments. Why does it bother you? Don't have men in your life that have respect for you and your wishes.





Get over it!






Quoting JeremysMom:

You do know that you can change that setting as well so you are not seeing it, right? Why is it his responsiblity to change what YOU see on your newsfeed.







Quoting CrazyLife1996:

It truly amazes me how immature some men can be.









We have a buddy my husband was in the navy with. He definitely the typical guy when it comes what pictures he likes.









Because we are friends on Facebook everything he likes posts to my wall. A lot more than I want to see but the problem I have is my kids are always close by and I don't want them to see that stuff.









I sent him a quick message asking him to try and find away to block that stuff from posting on my wall.









He told me he would see what he could do.









Guess what he figured out how to block that stuff. It has been almost 4 months.









He is single and more mature about Facebook than some of the stories I hear on here.


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CharlotteRose
by Charlotte on Feb. 2, 2013 at 9:13 PM
I am on a phone a new one which i just hate i miss my old flip one lol. Didnt mean to post twice


Quoting JeremysMom:

? Why did you post this a second time?

Quoting CharlotteRose:

It has nothing to do with her being insecure it has her dh being disrespecting her. Sounds like he is acting like a single guy









Quoting JeremysMom:

He probably feels like because you are insecure then he is being punished.




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MMerrill
by Melissa on Feb. 2, 2013 at 9:18 PM
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My husband and I both only have like 100-200 friends....I only keep family and people that I talk to at least on a weekly basis.  Neither one of us wants random people, ex's, people from high school or way back when, that we don't talk to any more, people who start drama.  If I have guys on mine, he knows who and why, and vice versa.  We have 0 issues with our facebooks because we keep it respectful.  If he had a bunch of hussies on his facebook, that would not be respectful.

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CharlotteRose
by Charlotte on Feb. 2, 2013 at 9:25 PM
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Yeah same for us.


Quoting frzmamaof4:

That's why my dh and I don't have a FB, too much DRAMA!!!

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Miller0305
by Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 9:26 PM

You should be done with your SO, not Facebook.  FB doesn't make him act like an asshole, that's all on him.

MrsShipley21
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 10:34 PM

Yes he definitely needs to delete these ladies off of his facebook page. This is extremely disrespectful towards you and your newborn baby. There is no need for him to be associating with women over social networking and especiallywomen he does not know. If he is blocking and doing all that you need to get it through to him what if you were doing this to him? Your his woman the mother of his child! Ugh I would be so so mad! That is why my husband and I don't do social networking. It is the worst!

raegan1221
by Silver Member on Feb. 2, 2013 at 10:37 PM
I agree.

Quoting aphrodite7400:

i think you overreacted.  its just silly FB. i dont take it seriously at all.  

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Reality_check
by on Feb. 2, 2013 at 10:41 PM
wow.. at least he doesnt allow his ex to get on his facebook and harass you.. a friend of mine went thru that. not even 1mo into the marriage either..
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