What if I didn't get married so young? What if someone would have encouraged me to get and do more in life?
i never had to, because i married at 32
i am glad i waited. i got to travel all over the world, had no worries, no kids, no jealous or insecure BF, partied like i wanted to. and i i knew when i found the right guy i would.. and i did...
I use to, but the way my life ended up, I sort of feel like I am doing backwards. I love my husband and I regret nothing. Our situation couldn't really be helped, it happened when it happened :-)
But I am thankful for it and I'm happy I had children younger. I am now 29 and my oldest is 8 and youngest is 3 soon. I am now kind of becoming back to myself and it was tough realizing that yes I was young but it wasn't anyone's fault or anything.
It's just how my life turned out and I am happy with it. I have A LOT of it left. I can still do a lot and I have still gone out and still travel when I can.
I married at 23 I don't think that's getting married young, I do wish when i was younger like out of high school i had a better support system and positive people around me. I could be a lot further in life like already in a career, and i could had gotten rid of the negative people years years ago. I think we all ask what if at some point were human.
No. I was young when I got married (20), but I didn't have to get married. I had my daughter at 15, but by 18, I had a college degree, and supported us fully. I sometimes I wish I'd had time to just be me, before I had kids, because I never really got to make mistakes, screw up, the way teens without kids can, but I'm happy. I love my life, I love my family, and I wouldn't change anything.
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