i need to spice up my marriage. (could be considered TMI)
i can't help but feel like my husband and i have hit a rut with our marriage. we have been together almost 4 years and married for almost a year. we have lived together for 2+ years and at the beginning "spice" was not a problem. but now i feel like everything we do is routine and i find myself missing the early years of our relationship. our sex life was amazing at the beginning and stayed that way up until about 1 year and a half ago but like i said i feel like we've hit a rut. i know having kids changes things a little but i don't want to be the couple that lose all sense of romance because we have a child. any suggestions to help me spice things up? i know the "honeymoon" phase can't last forever but i want to bring some of it back. i miss the way we used to be.