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Posted by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:01 PM
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I opened up my DH's iPad cause it kept making noise and I was trying to sleep. The first thing that popped up was his Internet browser, which was opened on some porn website. He already knows what I think about it and how much pain it has cause me and my mom. How could he look at it behind my back?
I just feel like I'm not enough anymore. I mean, if he feels the need to look at that filth behind my back, why stay married to me?
Help! How do I bring it up to my man without banishing him from the house completely?
BTW, I'm gonna hide the iPad until I can trust him again. And he is NOT gonna touch me until he proves to me that he won't betray me like this again.
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whitleypittman
by Bronze Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:17 PM
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TeamTARDIS
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:18 PM
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Sit him down like the adult he is and discuss with him what you found. 

shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:19 PM
I forget...he is otr and not local right? Is he maybe watching it because he is bored? It still doesn't excuse his behavior since he knows how you feel about it, but its an explanation at least. What dis he say when you asked him about it?
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shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:21 PM
Nm..just re read. Just ask him. Say I found thus on your iPad when it beeped and was trying to turn it off. And ask why he did this when he knows how you feel about it. See what he says and then go from there
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whitleypittman
by Bronze Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:33 PM
He's got a dedicated route and is home just about every night.

Quoting shadow_lark:

I forget...he is otr and not local right? Is he maybe watching it because he is bored? It still doesn't excuse his behavior since he knows how you feel about it, but its an explanation at least. What dis he say when you asked him about it?
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jazzy1016
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 11:49 PM
Just talk to him.
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shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 12:17 AM
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Oh yea...no reason to be that desperate. You need to talk to him and see what's up. Don't accuse him because that will just make him shut down, but he needs to know how much this has hurt you. And he probably has something he needs to say as well. I hope you two can work through this. *hugs*

Quoting whitleypittman:

He's got a dedicated route and is home just about every night.



Quoting shadow_lark:

I forget...he is otr and not local right? Is he maybe watching it because he is bored? It still doesn't excuse his behavior since he knows how you feel about it, but its an explanation at least. What dis he say when you asked him about it?
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MagicTemptation
by Christina on Feb. 10, 2013 at 1:11 AM
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Two childish acts will not end well. Him being childish for doing it behind your back, and you for hiding his Ipad. 

Can you come up with a compromise? Meet somewhere in the middle?

ReadWriteLuv
by Casey on Feb. 10, 2013 at 1:15 AM
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You're going to hide his iPad? Really? Really? He's an adult and you are not his mother, not his keeper. You have to be rational and discuss this like rational adults.
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Hottmomma607
by Trica on Feb. 10, 2013 at 1:25 AM
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I agree!

Quoting ReadWriteLuv:

You're going to hide his iPad? Really? Really? He's an adult and you are not his mother, not his keeper. You have to be rational and discuss this like rational adults.
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