Before I met my DF I was all about searching for my soul mate. I mean, a soul mate is the one perfectly created for you, right? Since I found DF I have never once called him my soul mate. It doesnt feel right to me. I believe he is THE ONE. I believe he was perfectly created for me. But soul mate..... it just seems so..... over used now. Maybe its because I have watched his 2 best friends relationship. The wife says they are soul mates, and the husband constantly talks about leaving her and how he doesnt think hes in love with her. I cant see myself living without DF. I am madly in love with him, and I know he is madly in love with me. He makes mistakes, that make me question it, but I am sure I have done the same to him. We are human, when we are hurt, or cry, we question. But he always reminds me how much he loves me. And I hope, my reminders reach out to him as well.
But soul mate, Im not sure I can use those words to describe him. He fits perfectly into me. He makes me complete, no wholes are found. He is my best friend and my lover. I dont believe there is anyone else out there that can complete me the way he does. I dont wonder if I am making the wrong choice. I know he is THE ONE.
Do you call your SO/hubby your soul mate?