I am just wondering if anyone out there has had any experience with this? My SO has been going through a 'funk' and it has been very frustrating to me. At first I thought he was mad at me and he just said he was really stressed. Next, I thought he was cheating.....he got pissed but final talked to me a little more and said he just isn't feeling like any touching, kissing, cuddling at all. He said no desire at all to have sex and that he isn't even masturbating much. (Which is unusually for him because he is gone during the week.). I do honestly believe that he is not cheating and has been trying to let him have more space and reduce stress. It seems to be working in that he is becoming a happier person, the guy I used to know. But, he still isn't feeling the physical side of things. I brought it up as nicely as I could this weekend and at first he got upset but then started talking about Having a conversation with a friend about low testosterone. It sounds like it could definitely be that but now, getting him to a doctor will be a major ordeal. Just looking for advice, options, experiences.... Anything will help!
on Feb. 12, 2013 at 9:42 AM