Our wedding is coming up this June. I'm currently deployed and have been working out everyday with my wedding dress and wedding photos on my mind as motivation. I only see my soon to be hubby on FaceTime a couple of times a week and I'm noticing (or I think I am noticing ) his face getting a little rounder and perhaps even some extra chin!!!! How do I ask him about it without hurting his feelings? Any ideas? He says that I really motivate him to workout and he can't wait until I get back to start again but that will only be one month before our wedding. I don't think he should wait until then to get off his butt. Please help.
i wouldn't
but i agree if anything talk about your goals an how hard your working, try showing the results idk that could be motivation
Well if you can't talk about your weight there are a lot more difficult things going to come your way in marriage. I'd ask him WHY he is gaining weight? He not eating right or is he depressed. Is he just lazy? Ask him if it's ok with him. If it is then you are looking at your future.
Quoting furbabymum:Well if you can't talk about your weight there are a lot more difficult things going to come your way in marriage. I'd ask him WHY he is gaining weight? He not eating right or is he depressed. Is he just lazy? Ask him if it's ok with him. If it is then you are looking at your future.
Quoting furbabymum:Well if you can't talk about your weight there are a lot more difficult things going to come your way in marriage. I'd ask him WHY he is gaining weight? He not eating right or is he depressed. Is he just lazy? Ask him if it's ok with him. If it is then you are looking at your future.
Quoting furbabymum:Well if you can't talk about your weight there are a lot more difficult things going to come your way in marriage. I'd ask him WHY he is gaining weight? He not eating right or is he depressed. Is he just lazy? Ask him if it's ok with him. If it is then you are looking at your future.
Just as a note to you, when my DH was deployed working out is all he had to do on his off time. He came back looking buff as hell. (Give me a moment I'm drooling at the memory.) Anyway, I had a lot more to occupy myself with and did not work out nearly at all. Plus I ate a ton of junk because cooking for 1 isn't all that inspiring. Just remember that you are gone and isolated and working out gives you release. It is not so for him.
not sure why it is bothering me but
- Hulagirl55
on Feb. 12, 2013 at 1:43 PM