So heres the story, my husband and I work from home, he runs his own business which is very busy everyday and I help him out as well as have my own business I do at home, we both have separate offices ect.
I wake up everyday early to get house work things done before I start working but he will not get out of bed until 10 or 11am ! I get so mad at him because ive been up already for hours doing things around the house and working.
I cant understand why he is not motivated to wake up earlier ! To make matter even worse he sleeps on the couch with the TV on most nights and doesnt come to bed until early hours of the morning and wakes me up.
Ive tried to understand him and think about why he is doing this, ive tried to help him with herbal sleeping aids and tried to encourage him to come to bed with me. Ive tried to make him understand how its effecting us, it makes us fights and our sex life is not great because he is never in bed and when he is im awake !!
I dont have pacience any more for this behaviour, I feel like he is acting like a teenager. what example is that for our future children ?
We are 'trying' for a baby.
each morning he has a new excuse, or he just says sorry.
ive tried so many things ! Ive even signed us up to the gym and told him that we have to go in the morning before we start working, like 9am. In my mind I was trying to give him a good reason to get up early and be excited for the day ( he loves working out ) BUT this hasnt worked........he still sleeps in and says we should go to the gym at 12pm after he wakes up ! This doesnt work for me because im busy working at that time and it completely messes up my day.
Please any advice.....