Well today is Valentines day and as always I go all out for dh and kids. I baked a two layer cake, cookies making spaghetti and heart shape meatballs. Each kidgot heart chocolate a lollipop and cards. I got dh A large box of kit kats in a heart shape a coffee cup and got him a cordless screwdriver he has been wanting for awhile. I also got him a box of chocolates from each one of our kids and we made special handmade cards for daddy.
So he gives me a box and says here I look at it and its a perfume set. Its beautiful but here's the thing dh have been together for 10 years and he knows I'm very sensitive to smells like I have to be careful with what house products I use cuz of the scents I break in a horrible reaction all over my body my face swells and I get all itchy with red blotches everywhere. So I can only where one perfume and I have been using for years. And 2 weeks ago we were talking about perfumes and we were even speaking about how I love his cologne and how it sucks I can't use different perfumes because of my reactions.
So with that in mind when he gave me the perfume I said Thank you. But in reality i'm kinda hurt because it's feels like he forgot who he was married too. Am I overreacting?
I appreciate that he gave me something don't get me wrong but I'm kinda annoyed he didn't think of me. Am I making sense? lol I would have rather had a card with something sweet written in it then something that can actually affect me physically.