Not that we were fighting but he was stressed (he has quit drinking and so far its not easy all he talks about is relapse) so I asked him... Lover.... The day we got married you looked into my eyes as I said my vows to you I noticed that you started crying. What were you thinking and feeling at that moment? He replied a while later and said more love and happiness than he can remember in a long time. So I asked him if he wanted that back and he said yes. So I told him then he has to be strong and fight the urge! It worked he didn't drink!!