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So freaking hurt and confused *UPDATE*

Posted by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 6:13 PM
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I feel like I am on an endless rollercoaster and there is no way of getting of. It's like one minute I love my SO, and father of my 7 week old son Xavier, to death and want to marry him so bad so I can have my family together. Then there are days I just don't feel like talking to him. But like the last few days I've felt hurt. I'm not a big V day fan but all I got was a happy valentines day text, like that's all I heard from him the whole day. Saturday he asked to come over today because he missed us so much an I replied saying let me check my family's schedule. Never got a reply till this morning I got a good morning. When I said it back I never got a reply and still haven't. I'll admit I wasn't excited to see him or have him over because I was feeling a little hurt but it's past 6 here and I've heard nothing. I love him but sometimes like now I feel like I try to be frustrated and almost cold toward him so I don't get hurt like this. I keep crying and I hate it and I feel like a big wishy washy girl.

Ok so I jut found out that he's been posting and talking to people in my family on Facebook. I do not have a Facebook but a family member asked if I was home Tuesday and when I asked why they said bf wants to know if he can come. No im never home Tuesday's because I'm volunteering every Tuesday and even like an hour after hearing this I still have no direct text from him! Idk if I'm overreacting or what
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gonecrazi
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 6:53 PM
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 If your baby is only 7 weeks old the you still have hormones getting back in wack. It could explain how you feel about SO. Give it some time.

DragonMother10
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 6:57 PM
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You are in what is called the fourth trimester. I never heard about it until after I had my son.
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eatyourveges
by Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 6:59 PM
This.

I had post partum depression for about two months before I realized it and it really took a toll on my marriage. Now that I'm getting help it is so much better!


Quoting gonecrazi:

 If your baby is only 7 weeks old the you still have hormones getting back in wack. It could explain how you feel about SO. Give it some time.


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MommaTasha1003
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 7:12 PM

Give it time. You wont feel half normal until baby is 6mo-1yr if this is your first kid..

KristenFowles
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 7:13 PM

 A new baby is a HUGE strain on any relationship.. It will get better <3

rayroe2
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 8:49 PM

 does he work a lot?

Mommy2BeAmy
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 8:54 PM
I agree with the others im 5mo pp and just finally feeling "normal" eventually things will fall into place and ull feel ok but it takes time and patience.
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i.heart.myboys
by on Feb. 17, 2013 at 8:58 PM


Quoting gonecrazi:

 If your baby is only 7 weeks old the you still have hormones getting back in wack. It could explain how you feel about SO. Give it some time.

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Kaylahk
by Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Every day almost, right after school till after midnight


Quoting rayroe2:

 does he work a lot?


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OHgirlinCA
by Silver Member on Feb. 17, 2013 at 10:39 PM
If this type of thing is a regular occurrence in your relationship, maybe you should reevaluate it.
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