My husband and I have been together for over three years now. We just got married In nov. We have been thru so many ups and downs and always came out swinging on the other side. Ive seen him mad upset down sick happy and etc. I know his foot steps his habbits his likes and dislikes. I know him.
We ran into money problems before we got married which we ended up losing our town home. There was no work for him while he was in school and i was already pulling in so many hours at my job i was pretty much living there. We never fought due to not having money in fact i think it brought us closer. Sharing s pop and making pasta every night bc it was cheap. We would save all our change and go to the movies or race go karts once a month and red box was our bestfriend.
So when we lost our place his mom and dad said we could live with them. They turned there one car garage into a living space for us. We have all our living room stuff in here and bedroom stuff. My husband got a great job up here and im going to be starting school. and I work also. So now we have money and i see a chance in him. He is always angery saying we dont have enough money ( we are saving to buy a house at the end of the year) and there is a whole new side of him ive never seen before. He is a 28 year old man but he is acting like a spoiled rotten teenager. He flys off the handle about everything snaps at me and his family.. and well the sweet man i knew almost seems like he is gone and a dick head has taken his place. i try to talk to him about it but he says im giving him lip which i am not.
At this point i dont know what to do. Could his family be bringing this out in him. Could i be doing it. Is it bc he had to move his wife into his moms house. I dont know and he wont talk to me. I tried to write to him but he says he is not doing none of this stuff. I recorded him once snapping for no reason and he said im just over thinking everything. Im more happy when he is away from me then i am when he is with me sometimes. I dont know what to think or say any more.. but im kinda of becomeing scared of this new person ive never seen before.