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Posted by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 8:43 PM
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My husband is adding porn pages on facebook and it is showing up in my newsfeed. Its starting to piss me off but i cant seem to talk to him about it. It really hurts me that he has to look at naked women online when he has a good thing right here. It seems he never wants to have sex with me anymore also and it really hurts.

by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 8:43 PM
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2lilmamas
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 8:57 PM
Has porn ever been an issue to you before? Have you spoken to him how it bothers you?
savannahmom2011
by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 9:02 PM

he has never made it obvious he looked at it till he started adding pages on facebook

Quoting 2lilmamas:

Has porn ever been an issue to you before? Have you spoken to him how it bothers you?


2lilmamas
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 12:03 AM
Get out in the open. Lets see what he has to say about it.
CJsMommy92
by Bronze Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 6:12 AM

Everybody knows what you like on Facebook others see. Maybe he's trying to tell you somthing in an asshole way. You should bring it up to him


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savannahmom2011
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 6:57 AM
He woke me up at 3:30 to get sex that only lasted literally 1 minute I got no pleasure at all. It's been that way for a few months now its like when he wants it he tries to get it over with as quickly as he can and its starting to piss me off
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MyGirlsAbbyLiz
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:26 AM
A man looking at porn doesn't mean he prefers it over you. I don't see the big deal
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TommyAbby
by Melissa on Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:35 AM

Well.. if you don't talk to him, how do you think it's going to get fixed??? O.o

It's not going to magically go POOF!!! overnight.. 


ashleigh24
by on Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:43 AM
That was my soon to be ex :-( he was very selfish and it got to the point where I didn't even want to have sex anymore. Your suppose to want to please each other that way everyone is happy. I'm sorry about your hubby. If he is anything like me he won't admit anything. I was very unhappy in my marriage but wouldn't admit it because I didn't want us to fall apart. My soon to be ex finally could see it clearly in my actions so he spoke up and moved out. I'm happier now honestly. I really hope this isn't your case. All I can say is talk to him about it. You can only take so much though so if he doesn't change then you have to make up your mind if you want to live like this or if you would be happier moving on. I really hope y'all can work things out though.

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He woke me up at 3:30 to get sex that only lasted literally 1 minute I got no pleasure at all. It's been that way for a few months now its like when he wants it he tries to get it over with as quickly as he can and its starting to piss me off
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AlannaMaria
by Alanna on Feb. 21, 2013 at 7:43 AM
You def have to bring it up to him. You could write him and e-mail and tell him how it bothers you. *hugs*
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Krysden
by Platinum Member on Feb. 21, 2013 at 8:07 AM



Quoting savannahmom2011:

He woke me up at 3:30 to get sex that only lasted literally 1 minute I got no pleasure at all. It's been that way for a few months now its like when he wants it he tries to get it over with as quickly as he can and its starting to piss me off

How often do you initiate?  Have you talked to him about what you need in that way?   Maybe asked him if he could ______  or would he please _______    Ruts are easy things to fall into and hard things to get out of.   The one thing I do know for sure, is that the longer you stew on this stuff the worse it's going to get.  It will take a negative toll on you and ultimately on your whole family.    Talk to him when y'all have time to REALLY talk.    It may need to be an ongoing conversation.  Good Luck.


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