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thinking about spicing things up

Posted by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 2:56 AM
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 so i have been thinkng lately about maybe having a threesom. wiht my dh and a female but i am not sure yet about this, and my dh is affraid if i bring a female in the bed then oneday i will want a male at one point..but right now i actually just want a female to please him..and me :) but i am just not sure about this yet...any advice or pointers?

by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 2:56 AM
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TXbornmama
by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 4:53 AM
I think that bringing another person into your marriage can cause more problems than its worth.
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bamamommy2009
by Member on Feb. 26, 2013 at 3:19 PM

 that was one thing i have thought about too, and was not sure exactly how that would work.. but i guess that you are right letting another in would cause trouble ...o well back to the fantisies lol

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I think that bringing another person into your marriage can cause more problems than its worth.

 

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by Trica on Feb. 26, 2013 at 8:19 PM
Good luck! You can't try porn first? That is a huge thing! Your husband seems not to be on board?
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Zazayam
by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 8:36 PM

I couldn't do it. No sense opening that whole can of worms for me. There's jealousy, THREE sets of feelings to worry about, possible comparisons that just don't ever need to be made, lines that get easier to cross... Just all around no thank you.

I'd just go to a toyshop and find a game to play together or something, spice it up one on one.

Some people can pull it off and it works great for them. Depends on the people involved.

MJP76
by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 8:40 PM

Yes, go to Vegas get someone there. I wouldn't invite a friend into the bedroom, that could cause serious problems.

la_bella_vita
by Bella on Feb. 26, 2013 at 9:24 PM

 Only do it if it's something you are 100% sure you want. No other advice because I've never done that

mommy2be77
by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 9:29 PM
I thought about it. Same thing to with a girl but not someone we know or would ever have contact again with but then I think what if he would be with her more then me and like her better and it just starts to freak me out alot!!!
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Mom2wife1
by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 9:30 PM

I've done it with my friend and her husband. It was weird after cause she got jealous and then he got jealous of her and my relationship. 

2lilmamas
by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 9:40 PM
Quoting TXbornmama:

I think that bringing another person into your marriage can cause more problems than its worth.

2lilmamas
by on Feb. 26, 2013 at 9:41 PM
A disaster waiting to happen.
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