When you have problems in your relationship who do you tell?

[2lilmamas]

When your having issues in your relationship do you talk to someone? Who do you talk to ? Or do you keep it to yourself

[RyansMom6204]

I talk to close friends of mine about it or just keep it myself. It truly depends on how I feel and my emotional level.

[Rain2Rinse]

My husband. He and I are the only people who can fix whatever problems arise. I would never allow anybody else into our marriage.

[Mya62412]

My mom or sisters.

[Byrd15]

Each other, close friends.

[momof2.5girls]

I talk to my mom and my husband.

[amberstars]

Nobody.  I see that as a private matter between husband and wife.

[briebaby123]

Depends. 
DH and I are usually really good and telling each other when we have a problem.

But if he's really bugging me, I go to my best friend first or during, and if it's REALLY bad I go to our parents.
A few weeks ago, hubby just came out and said that having a new baby was too much for him, and he's thinking about leaving...I FREAKED. He's over it now and said it was stupid (WELL YEA). 

[PrincessButton]

Most of the time I like to keep it between SO and I but there are times I know that my issues are unwarrented so talking it over with my best friend usually gives me a level head without having to drag the stress of every little emotion outburst into SO's and my relationship. It's just about knowing the difference between  a real problem and just being a hormonal woman (which I tend to be).

[TableforSeven]

If I have a problem with DH....I talk to DH about it.  No one else can actually help solve anything....he and I are the ones that need to work things out.

[MamaScho88]

 I talk to my husband first. I have to make sure that he knows there is a problem and give him a chance to fix it first. If it's a minor issue I usally talk to my best friend about it, not really for advice, but just to get it off my chest. Major issues I talk about with my MIL, we are very close and sometimes she has really good advice. But most of the time my husband and I are able to work things out in our own way, without anyones advice.