Me and the fiancé have been together almost 2 years. I have a 6 yr old before him and I'm now 20 weeks pregnant. We just moved in together a month ago. He's picked up this habit of going to the bar right down the road and I am not happy about it. It's just a small bar with regular people, I've been a few times. I'm not worried about him cheating or anything like that. It's the fact that I want him home. He goes a few nights a week. He's there now while I'm home with my son. I get pissed bc he says he's on his way home, then calls and says "hey I'm going have a beer. Be home in 30 mins". I act like I don't care, bc the night before, same thing happen and I blew up, so since I made it a big deal, he stayed longer. He came home an hour ago and then left and went back, I made another huge deal Bout it. I feel as if he'd much rather be at the bar than at home with me. That's a real hard blow. Yeah my emotions are crazy, but even if i wasn't pregnant, is act the same way! We talked about it an there's no getting passed it. I'm not gonna keep puttin up with this and he says he's not gonna stop ", that he needs his "me time"... I really wish I didn't care. Am I blowing this out of proportion? Do your men do this? Is it ok?
UPDATE... well he did join the gym, but the bar time has not changed. It was the worse last night. He didn't get home till 1 am. He didn't get up and go to work this morning either, so of course we fought at 4 AM. It hurts damn bad that he'd rather spend all his free time at the bar and not with his little family. I'm letting this get to me way too much and it's the last thing i need with this baby.