I got engaged over the weekend and now I am questioning whether I made the right decision. My fiance and I have been together for over 6 years and he finally has found a job that he likes or so I had thought. The day after I said yes to his proposal he proceeded to tell me how awful things were at work and that he didn't care if he got fired or not. I am scared to death, I have a 13 year old from a previous relationship that I am responsible for I don't think I can take the added drama of him not having a job. I know I couldn't afford the rent and added household expenses on my salary alone. I cant believe he didn't tell me this before he proposed. it would have made a huge difference in my answer. I have talked to him about it and he tells me not to worry that everything is going to work out., He says I am silly for worrying these things. The thing is I've been through this stuff before and I wasn't married or engaged. I know the outcome of this situation and I don't want to put my daughter or myself through it again. Im just happy she wasn't old enough to remember the first time where I was living on grilled cheese and macaroni just so I would have money to feed her well and pay the bills. It causes me great anxiety to have to deal with this. I just don't understand how he can not care about the consequences of his actions. I am really close to calling off the engagement,but I don't know if its too rash of a decision. Thoughts??