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alright ladies i need the best advice on this one

Posted by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 2:12 PM
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how to get better at giving BJ's before i was married i never liked giving them but now i actually crave it. but i keep asking my husband what he likes and what he doesn't but its not helping with his "I don't know" I've never been able to make him cum by just the bj so i definitely need some improving. i just want to be able to make him feel like he's flying in space. 

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ReadWriteLuv
by Casey on Mar. 5, 2013 at 2:17 PM
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Seriously, watch porn. Watch what they do, everything from the technique to how often they look up, then mimic it exactly. It's how I learned. It's secretly what they all want you know, the porn star treatment for themselves. You may feel silly and completely over the top at first, but the more you do it the more natural it will become. Watch a couple of videos online from a free site, and study it like you would homework in high school.

Mom2wife1
by on Mar. 5, 2013 at 2:18 PM
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Well, I just suck as hard as I can and use my hand at the same time, so it's like Im giving a bj and hand job at the same time. Focus on using your mouth more at the head and your hand on the shaft  simultaneously.  My dh loves it and gets off very easy with my technique.

2lilmamas
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 4:58 AM
Quoting Mom2wife1:

Well, I just suck as hard as I can and use my hand at the same time, so it's like Im giving a bj and hand job at the same time. Focus on using your mouth more at the head and your hand on the shaft  simultaneously.  My dh loves it and gets off very easy with my technique.



Pretty much
my4kids274
by Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 5:17 AM

I honestly have no idea. 

BUMP!

MumsTheWord571
by Bronze Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 5:24 AM
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Don't swallow your spit, let it get drooly. Use your hand, don't look up that often, act like you're really into it. Try humming. If you're going to gag just swallow. Suction not required. Try laying on a bed letting your head hang upside down and let him fuck your mouth.
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furbabymum
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 10:59 AM

 OMG that's how I learned!!!!!!!!!!!! Never really did BJ's until this pregnancy. Now I'm afraid we are both addicts! I also did some casual internet reading on men based sites.

Quoting ReadWriteLuv:

Seriously, watch porn. Watch what they do, everything from the technique to how often they look up, then mimic it exactly. It's how I learned. It's secretly what they all want you know, the porn star treatment for themselves. You may feel silly and completely over the top at first, but the more you do it the more natural it will become. Watch a couple of videos online from a free site, and study it like you would homework in high school.

 

AussieArcana
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 5:29 PM

Not sure, I've never had to 'learn'.

justpeachy71904
by Silver Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 5:37 PM
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Eat a mint
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Matriarch87
by Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 5:43 PM

flying in space??? lol...between that and your use of the term "BJ"...

anyways...

I guess....

My husband says its super hot when I look up at him while blowing him.  

He also likes it when I hum, but doesn't like it when I hum nursery rhymes.  

He likes it when my tongue flicks at his frenulum?  Not sure I spelled that right, not even sure if im thinking of the right word now...what I mean is that bundle of nerves just underneath the head.  Yea, flick the with your tongue.  

A little bit of teeth can be good, but let him control that.  

He also says so much pressure sucking isn't always better.  Neither is gagging your self trying to go deep like a porn star...He says rythmic motion is best.  Even if you can only comfortable take 4 inches of it so long as the rythym is there and steady its great.  Combine that with some taint rubbing some humming and tongue flicking...

That ought to do the trick..

But of course everyone is into different things.  
 


Jennygurl09
by on Mar. 6, 2013 at 5:46 PM

Focus your tongur underneath his head...and maybe play with his nuts

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