So my husband and I have been together for almost 5 years. He was in the Marine Corps but got out in 2009 right after we had our daughter. Now we are both college students and doing the day -to-day life thing while raising our kiddo. We live in Washington state where pot just got legalized, which is alright (even though I don't smoke it myself anymore) but my husband on the other hand smokes multiple times everyday (when he has weed). It has been driving me crazy because he acts so different when he's high (nicer and more easy going lol) but then he's grouchy when he's not. Today, he offered to take our daughter to dance class while I work on homework which was nice but before he was getting ready to go out the door he went into the garage (where he usually smokes).
I called for him and asked him if he was going out there to smoke and he told me yes. I politely asked him to please not smoke before he drives with our daughter because I don't think it's okay. Btw, he has always told me that 'he's fine' and still 'all there' while driving. I have been stoned/a little high before and if you smoke a lot, it definitely will alter the mind. He slammed the door and was pissed off as he walked out the door. We started arguing and he said I was controlling. So am I really controlling? Because last time I checked, I am a mother and will make sure no matter WHAT, that my daughter is safe.
Oh yeah, months ago he decided to put our 3 year old in the front seat without a carseat to drive to mcD's a few blocks away. I FLIPPED out when I found out.