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How many times does he love you?

Posted by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:39 PM
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Don't get me wrong here. Being told, I love you, is a wonderful feeling. I just want to know how much is too much? I know what you're thinking....am I crazy? My SO tells me he loves me through texts, our phone calls, before he leaves the house, when he drops me off and......
How much is too much until it gets to the point that you feel that it said out of habit more than the actual significance of the words? Sometimes I feel he says it to pacify me or maybe so I won't wonder if he loves me. or not. Sometimes I know its so he can hear it back. Thoughts? Do you feel your SO says it too much?
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butterbabie
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:40 PM
I sound like an ungrateful brat don't I?
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Mom2wife1
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:43 PM
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My husband tells me all the time too. Through texts, calls, notes, and all the time in person. I like it. I don't know if you should tell your husband to calm it down. That might hurt his feelings.

proudmommy690
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:43 PM
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We say it all the time. I dont get tired of hearing it
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lapcounter
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:44 PM
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There is never too much.
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ReadWriteLuv
by Casey on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:47 PM
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You sound really insecure. You would think constantly being told you are loved would do the opposite of what you're thinking right now.
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SuperMom2433
by Gold Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:50 PM
I agree.


Quoting ReadWriteLuv:

You sound really insecure. You would think constantly being told you are loved would do the opposite of what you're thinking right now.

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sewingmama88
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:50 PM
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We say it all the time and i don't get tired of hearing it.

boshs1andonly
by on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:52 PM
I agree. Dh and I say it every night , when he leaves for work, when we hang up. Its never occurred to me that him saying it more means he loves me less. That doesn't make any sense

Quoting ReadWriteLuv:

You sound really insecure. You would think constantly being told you are loved would do the opposite of what you're thinking right now.
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Roo1234
by Bronze Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:55 PM
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It is too much if it isn't sincere and if it annoys you.  

Ifunanya
by Member on Mar. 7, 2013 at 2:57 PM
DH does'nt say it a lot..but when he does,it feels like a thousand times...
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