so my husband and i have been together alomost 8 yrs and married almost 4 yrs. we had out 1st baby girl 9 weeks ago. i am stressed out and becoming resentful with him b/c he rarely ever helps me with the baby with out being asked. i love my baby more than anything but life was sooo different before baby. ( i wouldnt change anything now) my husband treated me like a person and now i feel like he treats me like i am just there to clean up after him, make him dinner, and take care of our baby. he complains that we are never intimate anymore but i am just not there with him right now. but its not like he is trying anyway. i feel like i am his mother asking him if he took a shower or brushed his teeth for the day. that never happened before. maybe i am asking him to much but i am tired of doing everything in the house. we argue all the time. what do i do?