Hello Moms!! I was just looking for a little advice here......I was with my sons father for 5 years. We had a terrible relationship, the whole on again off again cycle, fighting, lies, the whole 9....We finally decided to split up for good last November. Since then we are both in very serious relationships with other people. We get along now, take care of our son and there are no problems. HOWEVER I cant get the guilty feeling to go away. I feel like ive let my son down because I couldnt make the relationship work. He loves myself and his father very much, but just cant seem to understand why we are not together. All I ever wanted was for our little family to work, regardless of how miserable it made me. How do I let that dream go and finally move on?