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Tell me the five things you love most about DH/SO and the five things you like the least.

Posted by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 2:18 AM
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Also how long have you been together, have these things changed over the time you've been together?

DH and I have been together 6 years this May.

Here's my list:

LOVE:

1. He works a job he hates to support our family. I love this because it takes a strong person to stick with this kind of job when they hate it this much.

2. He can still make me laugh.

3. He'll cook dinner when I don't want to.

4. He tickle-rubs my back when I'm stressed or tired.

5. He's got the greatest smile. When he gives his real smile it just melts me.

 

DISLIKE:

1. He has asthma really bad. Don't bash, I know he can't control it, but it's really hard keeping up with his asthma. I don't dislike DH for this, but it is one of the things I dislike about him.

2. His idea of cleaning is to shove dirty clothes in the coat closet in the hall.

3. He apologizes for everything but rarely does anything to make a situation better.

4. He doesn't clean his hair out of the sink after shaving. YUCK!!!

5. He takes a minimum of 45 minutes to go #2.

by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 2:18 AM
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jeslc03
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 3:00 AM
1. He leaves his shoes everyone and I trip on then all gaya
2. Ha leaves the cupboard open all thamg fang to,e'
3. He leaves his nasty socks all over.
5. He loses him patience for our children very quickly.

But with a hills flaws, we balance each other very well'
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Mrs.Velasquez
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 3:40 AM
1. Makes me laugh all the time
2. Still calls me everyday from work
3. He's always there for me and vise versa
4. He's such a good daddy
5. He'll do anything for us.

1. He is very disorganized
2. He never cleans up after him self
3. He takes 45+ min going #2
4. His farts make me gag 99% of the time
5. He's a heavy sleeper and never hears the baby when she wakes up. So I have to get up.
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Armywife081011
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 3:43 AM
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I used to have a huge list of things I didn't like about him but since he left for boot camp I miss even those things and can't wait to have him back home. He is sacrificing so much for us and I am so proud to call him my husband. Just wish he wasn't going to miss the first 2 months of our daughters life :( 

pookie4907
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 4:48 AM
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What I love about him:
1. He makes me feel complete.
2. The way our hands fit together so perfectly.
3. When I catch him staring at me for no particular reason and I can see the love in his eyes.
4. When he's in one of his moods and he doesn't want to let me go, he just wants to hold me until we both get tired of it.
5. Even when I'm not wearing any makeup, my face is breaking out, I haven't showered, and I'm in my sweats, he stills says I'm beautiful and I know he means it.

What I absolutely can not stand about him:
1. He likes to chew on ice cubes. It's my biggest pet peeve!
2. He can be a little too rough with the kids.
3. I'm constantly having to repeat myself over and over because he's always tuning me out.
4. He makes plans without talking it over with me first to make sure we don't have anything going on as a family.
5. He never takes over as primary parent so I can have a little time to myself or go out with my girlfriends for a couple hours.

We have been together for almost 7 years, married for 6 next month. The things I love about him have never changed. The things I can't stand, the ones about the kids and family have only come up since we had kids.
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Mrs.Fields05
by Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 6:00 AM
Love
1.He loves to cook/bake.
2.He likes to talk.
3.He is chivalrous
4.He is a great dad.
5.He is hilarious.

Not so much...
1.He's a flirt even when he's not trying.
2.He's doesn't clean up after himself.
3.He has very little will power.
4.He's impulsive
5.He can be one sided.

We're coming out of a rough spot right now but I've said it over and over again.He's worth it all.
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Gmgej
by Michele on Mar. 14, 2013 at 6:41 AM

Love

1. His sense of humor

2. His sense of adventure

3. His loyalty

4. His tolerance of my bullshit

5. The way he loves me

Dislike

1. His lack of time management

2. His need to control everything anyone is doing

3. never finishes anything

4. He calls me constantly and we work together I mean upwards of 10x

5. His moodiness if he isn't getting laid on a regular basis

cairymom
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 10:23 AM

Been together for 5 yrs March 8th.

Love:

1. His calves (I know its and odd thing to like but they are sexy to me)

2. He makes me laugh

3. He is supportive of me and wants nothing but the best for me.

4. He is great with my kids.  He treats them as if they were his own.

5. Sex

Dislike:

1. His job.  He never gets vaca time and has to work every Saturday.  I dont think they appreciate how much he does for the company.

2. He leaves every cabinet door open or dresser drawer open.

3. His loud voice

4. He takes his socks off where ever and leaves them.  I find them in the couch under our sheets every where.

5. How he has to play a sport all the time all year around.

MrsLondon
by Bronze Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 11:17 AM

I like that he's caring, loves me and the kids, a great provider, loyal, and helps me when needed.

I dislike how forgetful he can be, how he ask's me where things are before he even looks for them, he's not really that self sufficient(which is partly my fault and mostly his mother's fault), he isn't that handy, and he work's out 3 times a day on the weekends which take away from my time.

But over all I would n't trade him for any other man in the world!!

JulieBoyd
by on Mar. 14, 2013 at 11:23 AM
That is exactly mine too, number five of dislike is the worst tho and then he tries to blame me...we get into fights all the time cus he always says oh you could've just woke me but when i try it takes an hour for him to get up, when the baby's crying we dont have that kind of time


Quoting Mrs.Velasquez:

1. Makes me laugh all the time

2. Still calls me everyday from work

3. He's always there for me and vise versa

4. He's such a good daddy

5. He'll do anything for us.



1. He is very disorganized

2. He never cleans up after him self

3. He takes 45+ min going #2

4. His farts make me gag 99% of the time

5. He's a heavy sleeper and never hears the baby when she wakes up. So I have to get up.

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Bertieb
by Member on Mar. 14, 2013 at 11:28 AM

1. I love how crazy he is about me and that I'm a priority in his life.

2. Great in the bedroom.

3. He is generous and spoils me.

4. He is fun and funny.

5. He is good to my children.

Dislike:

1. He doesn't like to decide where or what to eat and we go round and round unless I just declare it!

2. He doesn't pay a lot of attention to the bank account and then seems suspicious of where the money went.

3. I can tell he feels defensive if I say his kids are wrong about something even if he said it first.

4. We try to please each other so much with decisions we don't get anywhere sometimes.

5.  He doesn't make his kids have any financial responsiblities and they are young adults.

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