I've had enough and I don't know what to do....My husband has this 20 year old female friend that he used to text back and forth 5000-6000 texts a month until I confronted him about and we fought for months over. She was a coworker, one of those drama queen people who always has problems and issues that she goes to him over which is fine until it disrupts our time together. When your watching tv together in the evening and all you see him do is pay attention to his phone. The moment I say something its an instant argument. So he tells me he don't text her amymore, then I find out he is using facebook chat to communicate. Then I see posts about him being her best friend and he will always be her shoulder to cry on etc. and he doesn't think I should be upset over it. He is 59 years old and doesn't think I should be upset over him wanting to be such good friends with someone that young and female. He thinks just because she has been over our house and I know her its ok. I thought when she got fired from their work I would finally be done with all this but because she is so drama filled it has gotten worse. Imagine he goes out to order a cake for her birthday decorated with what he knows she is into and buys a present, he has her come to our house to celebrate her 20th and Im thinking to myself, I haven't had a cake for my birthday in God knows when...nor a present, and he goes all out for her. Am I being unreasonable to tell him I can't take it anymore and Im done with this crap?? That what I told him last night after I seen his post to her on facebook and of course instant argument and he has not talked to me since yesterday....I need advise how can I stop this before it destroys our 15 year marriage??
on Mar. 18, 2013 at 4:36 PM