My husband doesn't have the the best track record for telling the truth, and he's admitted that and we are now in therapy because of it. I don't trust him and rightfully so (according to our therapist). On the first day of therapy he promised that all the lying would stop and he would come clean with everything and swore to me that he lies to me about irrelevant things, and that he has never stepped out on me. However, I've found pics in his phone (prior to therapy) and texts from a co-worker, but I found more pics last night of someone that he claims he "friended" on Google something or another. Of course, once I found it he was so apologetic and begging me to keep working on our relationship. I wasn't sure if I wanted to do this because I think I'm afraid to find out the truth, but I think I do now: track his phone to find out all incoming and outgoing texts, emails and calls. I know people are going to say, just leave him since I don't trust him and he's obviously a liar, but its just not that simple for. I think everything can be repaired if both parties are giving all their effort and we have 3 boys and I need to do everything in my power to keep this marriage for myself (because I want to be with him, not just feel like I need to be) and for them. Thoughts?