Well he's at it again. We are arguing over sex. We haven't had sex in a week. I find he's in my couchie area having oral sex. I'm asleep mind you. I wake up and I push his head away. I've been exhausted this week. So its an all night argument again. I finally get to sleep wake up and all hubby ok do you want to be close? Argument. Sex is not my top priority. I don't know what else to do. OK... Ladies, this is what I mean by not my top priority. I ask him 3 times a day if he wants sex not everyday 3 times a day but somewhere along those lines. I ask him he says not right now. SO, it's not like I don't love sex I do with my hubby he just picks wrong times.