Here's the scoop. My wedding is about 9 weeks away and my amazing mother has done the majority of the planning. I have been out of the country for several months and I will be back in the states about 4 weeks before the wedding which doesn't leave a whole lot of time for last minute details. I am a suuuper laid back person who doesn't like to "sweat the small stuff". I'm so relaxed right now about wedding details that I'm starting to think I might be a little too relaxed. Like I am going to miss something huge. Ladies, I need your help. I'm the first of all of my closest girlfriends to get married so this planning stuff is all new to me. What last minute details should I be worried about or paying attention to????? Right now I know I still need to give our DJ some info, and our quartet a list of songs we want played as well as the time line of the actual ceremony. Other than that I feel like everything is under control. Is it weird that I'm not freaking out??