My husband was dealing wth a tantrum with one of the kids. I said that I couldn't deal with the situation since I'm very pregnant. Then he said, it was my "fault" because he didn't want another child. My unborn baby is m fault? I know that's not true, and this isn't the first time he's blamed me for our third pregnancy. Guess I made her all by myself. Oh, yeah once he found out it was another girl he has been a complete asshole. I've banned him from the delivery. I dont want him there. He doesn't care about her or me and he will just stress me out. So, he has to stay home.
He told me he wants us to downsize our home and pull our kids out of this school district, which is why we moved here. Our oldest has special needs and is going into a school with Autism classes. I have worked long and hard with the team of therapists, her teaher, and the autism specialist to put together her education plan for next year. He says we will just have to. But, I am not moving anywhere. He's freakng out and ready to uproot our whole life.
Who tells an 8month pregnant woman this out of the blue. He really upset me today and the baby and I need to stay calm. Even if he's worried about things financially, he handled this poorly.