How to choose between your family and your fiancee'
So here's the story. My mom has not liked my fiancee' since we first started dating. almost every time I talk to her she's asked me to leave and be smart and not stay with a bum. She is always mad because she thinks he is lazy and he is controlling my life. She gets pissed because he won't drive me down to see my family ever ( I don't have a drivers license). My husband doesn't trust my mom. He thinks she is always talking bad about him and that every time she drives four hours to my house to pick me up to spend a few days with her, shes not going to bring me back. The last time was it for me. My mother offered to help my buy an amtrak ticket to visit her at her new place and made a comment about how i should move in with her and my husband said he didn't want me to leave for six days and claims its because he thinks she isn't going to drive me to the station to come home. He offered instead to drive me. Problem is, He forgets everything and then when it comes time he won't do it because he forgot gas or he has to go do some work for his parents or something and my mom will be pissed because he didn't do what he said he would do. I love him and I love my family. How am I supposed to choose between the two? How do I tell one or the other that basically they won't be part of my life? I shouldn't have to choose right?