Would you expect a boyfriend to be a dad figure to your kids?
I have trust issues, so I probably dont be in a relationship for long time but if you were dating somebody, would you want them to act as a dad to your babies? I think I would like it, but as long as they at least LIKED my son I wouldn't expect anything more than just being nice to him.
If they didn't like him though deal's off. He's part of me so if a boyfriend didn't like him, he must not really like me either.