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Posted by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:17 AM
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How do you know when you man doesn't love you or want you anymore?What are the signs?

by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:17 AM
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villagemamma
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:29 AM
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I guess some basic signs would be little to no interest in communicating, sex, or time together. I really hope everythings ok with you and i wish i had better advise

Jrmommy032213
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:33 AM

 We don't really communicate like we use to we don't have sex like we use to but were together all day every day since hasn't been working but we been fighting like crazy specially since I just caught him last Saturday going behind my back for 3rd or 4Th time watching porno.

Quoting villagemamma:

I guess some basic signs would be little to no interest in communicating, sex, or time together. I really hope everythings ok with you and i wish i had better advise


 

villagemamma
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:36 AM
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My husband i i went through a really blah stage in our marriage too. We both worked from home at the time and spent basically every moment together. After a while there just runs out of things to talk about or do you bickering usually starts.

Sometimes to much time together really does damage to a relationship but its does not mean that it is destined to fail. You both just need to get out and do your own thing. Bring something new to the conversation.

Quoting Jrmommy032213:

 We don't really communicate like we use to we don't have sex like we use to but were together all day every day since hasn't been working but we been fighting like crazy specially since I just caught him last Saturday going behind my back for 3rd or 4Th time watching porno.

Quoting villagemamma:

I guess some basic signs would be little to no interest in communicating, sex, or time together. I really hope everythings ok with you and i wish i had better advise





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Jrmommy032213
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:46 AM

 I don't think that's it because me and my fiance have been together everyday for almost 2 years literally and everything been great other then his little lies and him sneaking behind my back watching porn.Now its like we fight everyday we don't communicate good at all we Barley have sex and to top it off Friday we had sex and right after words he sneaked off and went and watched porn whats this suppose to mean? He tells me all the time that he loves me but I'm starting to think he loves the idea of me and how much I do for him and how much I'm there for me.


Quoting villagemamma:

 

My husband i i went through a really blah stage in our marriage too. We both worked from home at the time and spent basically every moment together. After a while there just runs out of things to talk about or do you bickering usually starts.

Sometimes to much time together really does damage to a relationship but its does not mean that it is destined to fail. You both just need to get out and do your own thing. Bring something new to the conversation.

Quoting Jrmommy032213:

 We don't really communicate like we use to we don't have sex like we use to but were together all day every day since hasn't been working but we been fighting like crazy specially since I just caught him last Saturday going behind my back for 3rd or 4Th time watching porno.

Quoting villagemamma:

I guess some basic signs would be little to no interest in communicating, sex, or time together. I really hope everythings ok with you and i wish i had better advise

 

 

 

 


 

Laronda367
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:50 AM
To much time together can cause issues forsure i know when me and My sons Dad would sit in the house all day everyday with nothing to do him not working and things being stressful it would cause big fights arguments and it would be hard to get along from not getting out and not having that time to rewind and miss eachother...
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Jrmommy032213
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 3:52 AM

  I don't think that's it because me and my fiance have been together everyday for almost 2 years literally and everything been great other then his little lies and him sneaking behind my back watching porn.Now its like we fight everyday we don't communicate good at all we Barley have sex and to top it off Friday we had sex and right after words he sneaked off and went and watched porn whats this suppose to mean? He tells me all the time that he loves me but I'm starting to think he loves the idea of me and how much I do for him and how much I'm there for me.


Quoting Laronda367:

To much time together can cause issues forsure i know when me and My sons Dad would sit in the house all day everyday with nothing to do him not working and things being stressful it would cause big fights arguments and it would be hard to get along from not getting out and not having that time to rewind and miss eachother...


 

Laronda367
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 4:06 AM
Wow i know it can be hard and confusing thats how i was feeling with My sons father that he started loven the idea Of me and using me but not really giving a fuck... Well i say mabe talk to him because if u two have sex and he still want to go look at porn afterward? Then there is a possibility another woman or women are on his mind.. Have u mentioned or talk to him at all yet??

Quoting Jrmommy032213:

  I don't think that's it because me and my fiance have been together everyday for almost 2 years literally and everything been great other then his little lies and him sneaking behind my back watching porn.Now its like we fight everyday we don't communicate good at all we Barley have sex and to top it off Friday we had sex and right after words he sneaked off and went and watched porn whats this suppose to mean? He tells me all the time that he loves me but I'm starting to think he loves the idea of me and how much I do for him and how much I'm there for me.




Quoting Laronda367:

To much time together can cause issues forsure i know when me and My sons Dad would sit in the house all day everyday with nothing to do him not working and things being stressful it would cause big fights arguments and it would be hard to get along from not getting out and not having that time to rewind and miss eachother...



 

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Jrmommy032213
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:33 PM

 I honestly don't think he cheating he always with me he doesn't go no where but I think the women he watches on them porn video are on his mind. And Ive asked him if he still loves me and he says yes with all his heart that I'm the only one.

Quoting Laronda367:

Wow i know it can be hard and confusing thats how i was feeling with My sons father that he started loven the idea Of me and using me but not really giving a fuck... Well i say mabe talk to him because if u two have sex and he still want to go look at porn afterward? Then there is a possibility another woman or women are on his mind.. Have u mentioned or talk to him at all yet??

Quoting Jrmommy032213:

  I don't think that's it because me and my fiance have been together everyday for almost 2 years literally and everything been great other then his little lies and him sneaking behind my back watching porn.Now its like we fight everyday we don't communicate good at all we Barley have sex and to top it off Friday we had sex and right after words he sneaked off and went and watched porn whats this suppose to mean? He tells me all the time that he loves me but I'm starting to think he loves the idea of me and how much I do for him and how much I'm there for me.


 


Quoting Laronda367:

To much time together can cause issues forsure i know when me and My sons Dad would sit in the house all day everyday with nothing to do him not working and things being stressful it would cause big fights arguments and it would be hard to get along from not getting out and not having that time to rewind and miss eachother...

 


 


 

Babygirl9609
by Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:41 PM
Im sorry I have no advice but I know how you feel. My DF is not a porn addict but he has done it before among other things. My situation is a little different cuz hes abusive....I dont feel loved anymore. We agreed to work on things but its like hes good one minute and the next hes distant and mean saying a bunch of hurtful things. If youre not happy, leave. I dont know what to do anymore. In my situation, drinking is the big problem. Then he wants me to be like his personal servant. And yes I feelblike that....I know I dont work but I dont think thats an excuse for him to demand things from me. Ugh....I dont know what to do anymore....I guess ppl really dont change. Sorry for the rant but I hope you figure out what to do.
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Jrmommy032213
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:49 PM

 Awe I'm sorry sweetie I have been in a abusive relationship before now see my fiance does not call me names or anything like that and he never has the only name he has ever called me was bitch. I just feel like things are the same i don't know what to think. and I see your profile picture you are very pretty u could have any man you want leave him get on with your life sweetie don't put up with that he going to continue to hurt you. My second baby dad threw me out of a moving car when I was 5 months pregnant please get out.

Quoting Babygirl9609:

Im sorry I have no advice but I know how you feel. My DF is not a porn addict but he has done it before among other things. My situation is a little different cuz hes abusive....I dont feel loved anymore. We agreed to work on things but its like hes good one minute and the next hes distant and mean saying a bunch of hurtful things. If youre not happy, leave. I dont know what to do anymore. In my situation, drinking is the big problem. Then he wants me to be like his personal servant. And yes I feelblike that....I know I dont work but I dont think thats an excuse for him to demand things from me. Ugh....I dont know what to do anymore....I guess ppl really dont change. Sorry for the rant but I hope you figure out what to do.


 

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