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Do you know when your SO "takes care of himself"?

Posted by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 4:39 PM
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Jerks off, that is.

Or does he hide it from you?

If you know, how do you know?

How often does he do it?

If you know he has done it does it affect sex?

How old is he?

I don't mean foreplay, I mean solo masturbation.

I'm trying to pirce together some issues withour sex life and wondered how other SO's are compared to mine.


by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 4:39 PM
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shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 4:51 PM
I have no idea...
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JjcH0911
by Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 4:53 PM
My husband doesn't, he'd divorce me so I know he doesn't
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paknari
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 4:57 PM
Mine does. It doesn't bother me, especially since I have a newborn and I'm not in the mood! He would rather have the real thing though!
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leanntx
by Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 5:02 PM
Mine does. We're very open with each other, so he tells me. He works for two weeks at a time, so we're like a couple of teenagers when he's home, lol. But even when he does it when he's home, it doesn't affect our sex life at all.
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Serenity7
by Platinum Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 5:03 PM

 No

dipsetgrl06
by Bronze Member on Mar. 28, 2013 at 5:03 PM
He doesn't
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mommyto3bees
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 5:04 PM

he says he never ever does it and ive never seen him do it except before we got together when we were dating so.. lol i dunno

Zazayam
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 5:10 PM

Sometimes he'll head towards the room and ask if I'm going to be occupied for a while or something along those lines. I believe he's trying to be discreet but that's a pretty clear give away lol.

He does it at least once a week, sometimes more. I don't mind it, and it doesn't affect our sex life at all.

TommyAbby
by Melissa on Mar. 28, 2013 at 6:00 PM

If he does it, he does it privately. I have no idea and nor do I care if he does. Sometimes a persons gotta do what a persons gotta do ;)


Mom2wife1
by on Mar. 28, 2013 at 7:06 PM

Haha! I just assume every time he is in the shower he does. It doesn't bother me at all. I don't talk to him about it. One time he left some lotion in the shower and I said, " um babe, you left your jerk off lotion in the shower"  I laughed and so did he he. That was that. 

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