Ok so my girlfriend's (I'm a lesbian not a man.) dad is very sick and in the hospital. I've never lost a parent so I don't know what she is going through. Her dad is the only parent she has left. Her mom passed away in 2010. But I've been there for her for everything so far. She has yelled at me and I don't take it personally. She has cried on my shoulder. And I've comforted her to the best of my ability. So tonight she was venting to me about how scared she is to lose her dad. I told her it would be ok. So she asked me how I know. And she told me to be honest and not lie. So I told her it would be ok because we are only given what we can handle. As shitty as it maybe God knows we can handle it. I also said it would be ok because she is strong and I'll always be here for her. Well she flipped out! Yelled at me and walked away and wont talk to me! I'm confused! What does she want?! I feel like crap that I don't know what she is going through. How do I help her?!
on Mar. 28, 2013 at 10:13 PM