My poor husband went to the ER last night from work because he had a panic attack.
We are down to one phone and our Internet phone through google.This allows us to make phone calls while using the Internet. Long story short he ends up leaving work around 5 am this morning. He send me a text to our google number to call him. The text will come up on my phone (which is off) as a email because its connected to our wifi. Anyways I missed his messages by an hour. I call his job to see what was up because the text seemed urgent. One of his coworkers picked up. And instantly I knew something was wrong.
I kept calling and calling still no answer. I figure ok maybe he is at his mom's house. He does have a habit of going over there right after work and doesn't come home till hours later without any notice. So I thought ok no biggie. Then I remembered that his mom was coming over to drop off some baskets for our kids. So I start calling again.
Finally he picks up. I don't give him any attitude and I ask "what is going on? I have been calling you. What's up?" He says "I know I was on the phone but I went to the ER and so on. My mom came and sat with me."
Wow! ok so your mom meets you at the hospital and no cares to leave a voice mail or text me?
I was very disappointed that he didn't inform me. Because to me that is very serious. A PANIC ATTACK! Yeah I should be informed. Not as your leaving the hospital. I'm very relieved that everything is fine and he is doing better but I can't help but to feel like I wasn't included in my husband's health.
If he was in my shoes and I didn't came home and he finds out that I was in the ER as I leaving the hospital he would feel the same way.
Am I being selfish? Maybe. I can't help feeling this way.