My DH was tracked down by an old girlfriend. She lives at the oposite end of the country and they havent seen or spoken in many years. She tracked him down via internet. She professed her undying love and suggested they have an affair. My DH said he was not interested. And there has not been any more communication that I know of.
My problem...he is acting different now. I did get upset by her suggestions and such even after he told her he was married. My main problem is he has not tried to get frisky since he sent her the get lost email. And when I try to innitiate anything he is not in the mood for various reasons. Its going on two weeks and I am at a loss. And my self esteme is taking a huge beating.
I tried to talk to him about it but he says everything is fine and I am over reacting or makes some joke. I might be but I can tell you this is very unusual for him. And its not just the sex, he is acting weird on regular things as well. Its like hearing from her flipped some switch inside him and he is a totally different person.
I really dont expect an answer or magic fix, guess I just need to talk to someone. Thanks for listening.