Once a cheater always a cheater? Forgive or move on?
When I was seven months pregnant and my husband was being weird so when I checked his phone records there's This number that he kept talking to and texting so I ended up finding out that it was a girl. He said that it was the salespersons from work and that I shouldn't be worried about it. when I was about eight months pregnant he came home late. I just about had it I knew he was lying to me so I packed Up his stuff and kicked him out. I found a txt talking about Sex not about them doing it but talking about the theme. is itnjjust me or is that inappropriate? Til this day he says he didn't cheat on me. He did stuff with her after we had separated, mind you a week later!!!!!!! I was depressed during the final months of my pregnancy.
i hated him. He had never done this, he had recently too go a dwi, lost his job during our seperation.
Now he tells me how sorry he is and how much he regrets it. Mind you he's still talking to that cunt that ruined our marriage....yes yes I know.
anyway, I told him that he needs to stop talking to her if anything is going to happen btw us. If it is. I told him that I might not want to work it out. But he still agreed to stop talking to her.
as of right now, I don't see us getting back together. He hurt me way too deep, and even if I still love him, I think it's best to divorce rather than get hurt again.
Pam I right? Or what advice is there?