Should we just wait til we have more money? Do a special i timate ceremony and throw a party later for everyone else? I was also thinking of a surprise wedding, like telling everyone its an engagment party or house warming but really we will be getting married..also with 3 kids we dont get alot of alone time so i was also thinkin of doing something small and use the money for a honeymoon, we could always do a vow renewal down the line..
Any ideas anyone? Ladies that didnt have the big shabang were you ok with it??