I have posted alot of things on here about my marriage, my pregnancy, and my husband. But I haven't really voiced how I feel about my separation and possible divorce. I DO NOT WANT IT! I want my husband back. I have tried playing nice with him and agreeing with what he wants hoping it will open his eyes to the fact that he doesn't really want this. He has left before and come back after a month or 2 of cooling off and conversations between us. This time seems different. He has surrounded himself with his family that hates me and will only really talk to me when he is not around them. I really feel they are pushing for this. Is there anything else I can do to try to get him back? I'm doing counseling, I have suggested counseling for us or at least 1 sit down with a mediator so he can really see what he is suggesting. Sometimes the things he says gives me mixed signals but when I ask him straight out he says he is done for good. His reasoning is that this life we built is too stressful, 2 kids, I'm pregnant, we were moving, and he was the only worker. He was in the mental hospital for 5 days to get away and he doesn't want to go back. But is there ANYTHING else I can do to help him see that he will regret this in the future?
And we just had a conversation which he initiated and it came up about honesty. I want to tell his family what has really happened between us so they will stop putting all the blame on me and saying poor him. My hubby said if I do that then we are done done. I thought we were already done done? Mixed signals or am I just too hopeful?