i cannot figure out why i have no sex drive anymore. i haven't since a couple months after dd was born which was over a year ago. dh is still good and wants it like "normal" i guess but i have to convince myself to do anything and that's usually only because i feel bad that i'm not pleasing my dh. i want to enjoy that area of our marriage again and i have tried everything i can think of (including googling the subject on several occasions and buying new "toys" to try) but nothing has changed. i'm only 24, this can't be normal right? has anyone else experienced this? what did you do?