. i feel like we arent a couple. been on 2 dates in a year kid free for maybe 2 hrs max. i feel like im just someone to take care of my husband like hes a child and im only useful for sex. other then that the 2 or 3 hrs he spends dping something with me and they boys is supposed to be sufficent he thinks. he thinks my lifes so easy staying home its not work to take care of the boys then i cry bc i tell him i feel neglected by him except when he wants sex and he says the quality of the time should be more important then the quanity.
well if you dont treat me as a wife as a partner as someone you love and miss spending time with how do you expect me to act?! im gona be a bitch if you treat me like one!
i resent him in some ways like he goes hunting every winter every weekend for 3 months and gets his time alone i NEVER do anythig alone if i see my friends the kids are with mw i dont get to be just me not a mom and wife just a woman who needs some me time.
i am overly emotional right now he argues and says im ungrateful. i just dont know what to do anymore .... any advice please help!