but you know, something about a family n children..
you just want to make sure you tried, ya know? that you weren't a big fat giver upper.
We never married, in truth he is still legally married to his ex. (Clue #1 right?) We were great for the first year or so, then the economy hit, he lost his job. n we had to stay with his parents. that was 4 years ago in August.
He couldn't find another job right away, his mother I guess thought she was helping soothe his woes, n would slip him some of her pain meds, depression meds, whatever... he changed. I should have left then, but who gives up on their man when he's down? (I should have) .
Things steadily got worse so I left to my home state, got a job and was doing ok.. we got along long distance, and everyone said he'd changed for the better, so of course he asked me to come back.
N of course I did, n of course it wasn't any. different.
you know I'm glad I did, his mother died a month later. I stood beside him, but he eventually went back to being an ass towards me.
. he convinces me in March to move to his home state with him, he would change because he'd be less stessed, happier. I fought it but I caved. I would be closer to my family by half the miles.
before the attitude was one if ignoring me, or acting indifferent to me like I was a piece of furniture. snapping at me, but since we have been here, its turned from mental abuse to verbal n even downright physical, yesterdays actions were my last straw. his family stood n watched while he beat me, lied to the cops in their home town when they got here, n are hiding him somewhere.
My family is on their way for me n our boys. I'm scared, stressed, sore