Does your SO tell you when he's going to belate for work? Or if he is going to run arrends or simply leave the house.
We've only been married 3 months and I see this trend. He's usually home at 3:15 and it's almost 4:00. I have no idea where he is. I trust him but i think it's odd. If I'm going to be out and about I just let him know.
How's your dynamic?
EDIT- and if he does come home late do you have ot ask him where he was or does he volunteer the information? Just seems odd. I have to ask: "where were you, youre late". If I come home after what ever doings I say "honey I...."