So im going to try to explain as much as possible without going on .If you seen my other posts you know i have issues with my husband and all his hobbies every weekend( quading fishing hunting etc, all of wich he does with his family) My dh has a nice enough family but i think im figuring some stuff out and want some opinions. 3 yrs ago when we got together i knew my mil doesnt speak with one of her brothers and never really asked to many questions. Well about 2 yrs ago something happened and she stopped speaking to her sister, for immature resons( not showing up for a nieces baseball game) im sure there are two sides to the story that i dont know and maybe more to it than i hear. Well my in laws were over lastinght and mil was saying how she now doesnt speak to her other sister now because the one had turned her against my mil??????ya ok!!!Upon further talking i guess the brother she does not speak to is because he chose his wife over quading and and the fishing and hunting all the time i mean he would still go but not at their beck and call and i guess that drove this wedge between them. Well my husband always uses his family against me when he wants to go do these things saying they are mad at me and how he's losing his relationship with them! We live in the same small town a few blocks away from brothers and parents ,we probably see them 3 times a week. They are all beginning to treat me differently and prob think im a bitch because i want family time with my husband and son once a weekend and dont want him to go quading or whatever. So is it just me or is it wierd to not speak to 3 siblings? iused to think they were such a great tight knit family but the longer im in it, their beginning to seem more like 2 faced liars. I was almost believing that they deserved to be a bit upset with me for keeping dh home sometimes. But i think thhis family will be the reason i ever get divorced or disowwned!!!!!!!!