Is religion a problem in your relationship? Hubby is non practicing catholic and I am of a different faith and it is a constant battle. I think it makes me a better wife but he absolutely hates it when I go to services or other church activities. He dislike my church friends. We've discussed it many times but he cannot give me a good reason why. All I can think is that its part of his controlling personality and it's something he has not been able to keep me from.