Do you think of an ex when you're having problems!?!
My hubby and I have been together 3 years, married for almost 2 of those, have a 7 month old daughter, and we have our normal ups and downs.
But sometimes, those downs outweigh the ups, and I find myself thinking about one of my exes...He was my first love, first heartbreak, first everything! We tried remaining friends, but the love that is still there is dangerous to our current relationships (in his words)
I feel guilty for it...for thinking what my life would be like with this other man instead...especially because leaving during rough times is the easy way out, in my opinion.