My husband "was" friends with a guy who turned out to be a not so nice guy and they didn't speak for a while. My husband ran into this guy's longterm girlfriend and they hung out. She told him that she was planning on leaving her boyfriend because they werent in love anymore and he was too controlling. So my husband, the nice man he is, helped her to leave. It was actually a pretty smooth break up. Well since then she started coming over and spending time at our house. She had no other friends because of her ex. I started to pick up pretty quickly that she was having feelings for him. I know he would never do anything against me. But he can also be oblivious to some things. He thought her being nice and friendly was just that. She became a puppy that wouldnt leave his side. They would text about her spending some time over the house. She would just come over first thing in the morning, etc.I had just had a baby and we hadnt been intimate for a while so he was venting some of his frustration of that to her. I assume that she felt that meant he wanted to have a relationship with her. He quickly started to get annoyed with how attached she was getting. She would try to be my buddy and offer to help me with household chores. She talked about going out with me to get drinks or to help with the baby.
Finally he told her to back off. I told him that I was glad he did that because I could tell she was crushing on him. Every few days she will text him and say things like "I havent heard from you in a while, when are you coming over? We need to hang out while ____ is a work." Seriously, can you believe this girl? Thats just it, she is a girl, in her early 20s. I have read their text conversations where she would come out with that stuff and he flat out tells her to back off or just plain ignores her. its getting to the point where we are going to change his number because she cant get it through her head that he is happily married.
I never wanted to be one of those women who tell the other woman to back off, but it's getting pretty close to me knocking her out. Why are there crazy girls out there who think that vows mean nothing or don't get the hint that they are barking up the wrong tree? geez