When you got married did anyone get mad that they weren't invited?
Hello ladies. I am getting married next month and have been having some trouble dealing with people who are upset with me for not inviting them. They are on my DF's side, and he has a huge family. We are only having about 70 people at my wedding. Well one of Lj's cousins is pissed at me because she wasn't invited. Now we are getting married in FL. Me, DF, DD, my father and in laws are flying to FL from NJ to go down there for the wedding.
DF's cousin lives in FL, she lives about ten hours from my mother and where are having our wedding. Now she is pissed because she didn't get invited. Some of DF's family is coming, mainly because they wanted to go and asked us if they could go. DF didn't want anyone in his family to know we were getting married specifically because of this purpose.
Now we are not planning on this being our one and only wedding. We are planning on throwing a big party together mainly for his family to come to because his family is so huge. And so that way anyone who wanted to go to our FL wedding could be there to see us do it over again up here in NJ.
Anyone else go through something like this? How did you handle it?