I've been married since 12/12/12, and I knew my dh had 2 dwis before we got married, he was irresponsible and had no job for half of last year, when he does have a job it lasts only a few months due to him going to a hiring agency that most jobs just last that long. Anyways, we dated two years ago for a couple of months, and I broke up with him because he drank, and got drunk every day and I didn't want someone like that. But we remaind friends through those 2 years and finally got back together but I had told him he had to quit drinking and get a job before we started dating again, which he did. I told him that I'd be ok if he had a couple of drinks here or there, but not everyday. So we went to a restaurant about a moth ago, and he had too much to drink, after I wanted him to stop. When we got home he wanted to go see his friend and I asked him not to leave, I tried to get his keys, he wouldn't let me take them from him and he took off! Well he got his 3rd DWI that night NHL doesn't make enough money to even pay for the car to get out of impound so I had to pay for it! (The car is in my name or I would of left it there!) anyways, this 3 rd one is going to be soooo expensive, and he's still paying on his 2nd one plus he has $1600 fine he hasn't started to pay for! I'm not going to pay for any of this I told him! I have a house my dad bought me that I want to leave to my kids and I'm afraid if he did this again someone could sue me cause we are married and I'd be screwed that much more! Plus I am basically supporting him! I don't need another kid to support! Am I wrong to feel this way? I do love him but I don't love all this crap!