Ladies with a spouse who is never home due to work EDIT PLEASE READ
How do you keep your marriage healthy and in a positive space when you mate works away from home most of the week? I knew there was something going on, but i couldn't put my finger on it. On fathers day he asked for a divorce. He said he isn't happy with himself and he cant focus on us until he is happy with him. He said it would be selfish for him to ask me to wait for him. I am more than willing to fight for my marriage, but i cant fight alone. He said he doesnt want to do counseling, because he wont be into it. Early Early this morning I asked him was he sure this was what he wanted, i asked him did he want to try a separation to give him to to himself, he agreed. Apart of me feels like he agreed just for me, i will speak to him about it, i want him to do it because he wants to, not just for me. I Love my husband and would love for us to make it through it. I wont give up on us, if he wont. We have decided after a few break downs this morning, loads of tears from the both of us and then calmly talking we are going to take a step back and evaluate see what changes need to be made, while growing, and taking our relationship day by day. We are also going to meet with our pastor.